Choosing the right therapist is an important decision. I am a private pay and out-of-network provider, which means I do not participate directly with any insurance plans. Many clients are surprised to learn that therapy can be paid for in different ways, including self-pay or by using out-of-network insurance benefits.
Both options allow you to access high-quality care while maintaining flexibility in choosing the therapist who best fits your needs.

What it means
Self-Pay Therapy: Clients pay directly for therapy sessions without involving insurance.
Out-of-Network (OON) Insurance Benefits: Clients pay for sessions and may submit a claim to their insurance company for partial reimbursement if their plan includes out-of-network mental health benefits.
Privacy & Confidentiality
Self-Pay: Highest level of privacy. Insurance companies are not involved and no diagnosis or treatment records are submitted.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Insurance companies typically require a mental health diagnosis and treatment documentation in order to process reimbursement.
Clinical Flexibility
Self-Pay: Therapy can focus on growth, skill-building, and personal goals without insurance restrictions.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Insurance plans often require that therapy meet medical necessity criteria tied to a diagnosis.
Session Frequency & Length
Self-Pay: Greater flexibility in determining session frequency and pacing based on clinical needs.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Insurance companies may limit session frequency or number of reimbursable sessions.
Paperwork
Self-Pay: Minimal administrative work for clients..
Out-of-Network Benefits: Clients may submit session receipts to their insurance provider for reimbursement and track claims.
Cost Predictability
Self-Pay: Clients know the exact cost of each session upfront.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Reimbursement varies depending on deductibles, coinsurance, and plan details.
Access to Care
Self-Pay: Clients can work with the therapist who best fits their needs without insurance network limitations.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Clients can choose an out-of-network therapist while still accessing some insurance benefits.
Insurance Deductible
Self-Pay: Does not apply.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Many plans require clients to meet their out-of-network deductible before reimbursement begins.
Control of Treatment
Self-Pay: Therapy decisions remain between the therapist and the client.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Insurance companies may review treatment documentation to determine reimbursement eligibility..
Best for
Self-Pay: Clients who value privacy, flexibility, and autonomy in their care.
Out-of-Network Benefits: Clients who want to work with a specific therapist while still using their insurance benefits.
Many insurance plans provide out-of-network mental health benefits, which means you may be able to receive partial reimbursement for therapy services.
If your plan includes these benefits:
• You pay for the session at the time of service
• A detailed session receipt can be provided
• You submit the receipt to your insurance company
• Your insurance provider may reimburse a portion of the session cost
Because every plan is different, it is helpful to contact your insurance provider directly to understand your coverage.
If you plan to use out-of-network benefits, you may want to ask your insurance company the following questions:
• Do I have out-of-network mental health benefits?
• What is my out-of-network deductible?
• How much of the session fee will be reimbursed after my deductible is met?
• Is there a limit to the number of sessions per year?
• Do I need pre-authorization for therapy services?
• What is the procedure for submitting out-of-network claims?
Why do some therapists choose not to be in-network with insurance?
Insurance networks often require specific diagnoses, treatment plans, and documentation. Many therapists choose to remain out of network so they can provide care that is flexible, individualized, and focused on each client's needs rather than insurance requirements.
Will I be reimbursed for therapy?
Reimbursement depends on your insurance plan. Some plans reimburse 50–80% of session fees after the deductible is met, while others may reimburse a smaller portion or not offer out-of-network benefits.
Can therapy still be affordable without insurance?
Many clients choose self-pay because it allows them to prioritize privacy, personalized care, and flexibility in treatment. For some individuals, reimbursement through out-of-network benefits may offset a portion of the cost.
Note: Many insurance plans offer out-of-network mental health benefits. If your plan includes these benefits, you may be eligible for partial reimbursement for therapy services. A detailed receipt (superbill) can be provided for submission to your insurance provider. Clients are encouraged to contact their insurance company directly to verify coverage.
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